Friday, 8 March 2019

A Preschooler Who Isn't At Preschool

Toddler turned 3 on Monday. So technically he isn't a toddler anymore - in official terms, he's a Preschooler.

Except, he's not at preschool. And at the moment I don't think he'll ever go.



There are various reasons for this. One is that I'm just not sure he's ready yet - his speech has come on lots in recent weeks but can still be hard to decode, so I worry that he would struggle to communicate with staff and other children at preschool. Also he can get distressed if I leave him with someone else, and while I know that's common and something a lot of kids work through, I just don't feel like pushing it when I don't need to.

Which leads me to me. Circumstances are very different now to when I put Girl Child into preschool. I'm no longer trying to work from home so don't have a pressing need for childcare. Also, I'm finding this stage a lot easier now. He's a much more mellow child so I don't feel as exhausted trying to meet his need for stimulation as I did with Girl Child. And of course, he's my last child. I'll never do this stage again, I'm in no rush to share him yet.

But also there's the challenge of finding a preschool that I feel would be right for him, and for us as a family. Girl Child went to two different settings - one, a preschool, from just after her third birthday until just before her fourth, and then a school nursery until she started school. She didn't have the smoothest of times at either but the preschool was far better for her, and I'd envisaged sending her little brother there too. However, that now only takes children from 2 until the September after they turn 3. So if I put Preschooler in there now he'd only have a term before he would be expected to move to the nursery class, which was much more formal and structured and not at all what I think he needs. I'm strongly in favour of a relaxed, child-led approach as opposed to focussing on getting children 'school ready'. Different families have different feelings about this and that's fine, but my gut tells me he wouldn't be happy in a more structured setting yet.

So where does that leave us? At the moment I'm thinking of finding a childminder for a couple of days a week from September, as I think the smaller, more homely environment would be better for him. For now though, I'm just going to carry on enjoying having him at home with me. I'm very aware that not many parents have the luxury of being able to stay at home and I want to make the most of it before I have to give him up to school five days a week.

Is there anyone else whose preschooler doesn't/didn't go to preschool? What did you do instead?

Tuesday, 5 March 2019

Review: 'Shampooch' by Heather Pindar and Susan Batori

My kids are obsessed with dogs at the moment. Girl Child has gone from being terrified of them to wanting to stroke and talk to almost every one she sees (unless they're off the lead, then she still gets very frightened). Toddler has always loved dogs and squeals with excitement when he sees them!

So I was really happy to receive a copy of the latest picture book from Maverick Children's Books, 'Shampooch'!


Shampooch is a very pampered pup indeed, her owners lavishing all kinds of expensive beautifying treatments on her.


So when they visit the park, she doesn't want to join in the grubby games of the other dogs. But then she gets distracted ...


I won't spoil the ending, but let's just say Shampooch discovers that getting messy can be lots of fun!

This is a really fun book which would definitely appeal to young dog lovers. It would also be a fantastic book to read with little ones who seem anxious about getting messy, to show them it can be fun and that there's more to life than looking smart. My only slight reservation is the negative reactions of the owners, which might put children off getting dirty, but this would be a good talking point for parents to explain when it is and isn't OK to get messy, and why dog owners might react differently to parents (it's easier to take off muddy clothes than it is to clean muddy fur, for instance!).

I really enjoyed reading this book with Toddler, there are lots of brilliant onomatopoeic words that make it lots of fun to read aloud, and he loved looking at all the funny dogs! Yet again, Maverick has delivered a book with appealing and amusing illustrations to complement a witty, wacky and well-crafted story.


DISCLAIMER: I was provided with a copy of this book for review, but all words and opinions are my own.

Linking up with #ReadWithMe hosted by Mama Mummy Mum and Kids Love To Read #KLTR hosted by Laura's Lovely Blog, BookBairn and Acorn Books.


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Friday, 1 March 2019

Things We've Done To Be Greener In .. February

I've got to be honest, dear reader, these posts are getting harder to write. This is in part because I've been documenting our eco progress for 11 months now and starting to run out of ways in which I can make our life greener without significant expense or hassle. And, leading on from that, I'm at a stage where I feel I need to focus on other things, especially in terms of parenting, and that means I don't have a lot of time to face the hassle. Therefore I've come to a decision that next month's post will be the last of the series - one post for each month of the year. If you have any suggestions of things we can do in March then please let me know.

Anyway, onto February ...



Made recycled crayons



A small act, but still a way of reducing waste. We have an old chocolate tub full of colouring stuff in our house and it was at the point where it was over 50% filled with broken crayons. So, following Captain Bobcat's really helpful guide, I sorted them into colours and melted them into cute fishy crayons!



Admittedly I still have a few colours yet to do, but it feels great to have decluttered the colouring tub without just binning the broken bits. And Toddler seems to prefer the chunky size of these crayons too. Win!


Found alternative cleaning products


One areas I was struggling with was my dishwasher. The tablets we were using either came in plastic wrappers which aren't recyclable in our area or were coated with what I suspect is soluble plastic - and of course, releasing microplastics into the water system is a Bad Thing. I had intended to start using dishwasher powder instead but actually couldn't find any in our local supermarket! Luckily our trusty zero waste shop came to the rescue as they stock Ecoleaf tablets, which at least claim to be fully plant based and environmentally friendly. They're pricier but I can live with that.

Also, my husband is getting in on the act and found an Ocean Saver bottle and pod at the supermarket. The idea of this is that you buy a bottle containing a pod of concentrated cleaning product, mix it with water at home then just buy new pods when you've run out. Again, this makes me a little concerned about the possibility that the soluble skin of the pods are made of plastic, and frustratingly I couldn't find any clear answer about this on their website, but from the perspective of reducing packaging and reusing the bottle, I think this is a great idea.


So, that's it for my penultimate monthly eco-friendly round-up. Let's see what fabulous green swaps I can find this month for the last one!